The cool girl is not a person. It is an unattainable standard that women believe they are expected to meet in order to have some sort of chance at finding love. Plenty of girls are cool. Plenty of girls embody the stereotypical aspects of a cool girl, such as loving football or hanging out with the guys or playing beer pong or eating a massive steak. The word cool is arbitrary.
As with anything in life, all we have to do is adapt, and tackling the world of romance is no different. And while instant gratification has been provided to us with a quick swipe, this is an excellent time to press pause and focus on courtship.
While we are unsure how long self-isolation will last, this is an excellent opportunity to practice real, raw intimacy. Start vetting them by their responses.
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Getting to know someone by an app, then text, then phone, and working up to FaceTime can be a very thrilling journey, especially if you use it to uplift each other in trying times like these. Finding out who is a supportive person now can be very telling for what a relationship will look like in the future. Because businesses are having to adapt fastthe virtual world is blowing up like crazy.
This means Zoom classes galore.
Striking up a conversation with people in a group setting can also ease social anxiety. Aside from that, if the gym was your local hotspot for dating, a virtual class and see if you can get a workout and a flirt in. Get dressed in your best and get on FaceTime so you can gauge the chemistry. Cook a meal together, have a few drinks and see if it le anywhere.
You could even get on Netflix Party and watch a movie together. Red flags can be super visible, and so can white ones. Clarity is your friend amidst the inevitable loneliness of isolation.
Lean into the gift of being able to have distance. For a lot of us, the first thing to go when dating someone new is our self-care routine.
Now, however, we have the ability to slow our roll and put ourselves first. Make a list of your non-negotiables and stick to them. Build a dating routine around one that works for you — see who fits in, who respects it, and who falls to the wayside.
This is an epic time for an independent romance, one where both you and the cutie on the other end of the phone can thrive. Humans are inherently social and we can adapt to this just as we have to any other roadblock.
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The Hoboken Girl. Playing the Long Game While we are unsure how long self-isolation will last, this is an excellent opportunity to practice real, raw intimacy.
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