Nothing is more frustrating in dating than being ready for a relationship, but having no clue where to meet the right person. I believe that we are constantly crossing paths with the right people but we miss opportunities to connect with them. There is a lid for every pot, meaning a right guy for everyone. You have to believe that the right man for you is on his way into your life. You have to hold firm to the idea that the right man is out there and know with certainty that he is making his way into your life.
I have a naturally generous and trusting nature, and unfortunately, that seems to attract the wrong type of guys. Rather than appreciating my kinder, softer side, pretty much every dude I date just uses it to their advantage, manipulating and betraying me until I regret being a decent human being. Honesty seems to be a thing of the past.
I can handle the truth, really, but no one seems willing to give it to me. They never reveal their bad side right away. Even when I meet someone who seems like a good fit for me, I still have to keep my guard up.
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I hate feeling like a consolation prize in the dating game. So of course, they work to get me to catch feelings for them, then peace out after they got what they wanted in bed.
There are way too many sexists, racists, and plain psychos out there. I had no idea that there were so many guys out there who still think racial slurs and sexist comments are still acceptable in I know truly good men are out there, but all I ever seem to find are the ones who seem to have time-traveled from the s. I try to date men, but all I can find are overgrown little boys who point fingers instead of admitting that they were wrong.
Even proper breakups seem like too much effort nowadays. Instead, I end up getting ghosted, breadcrumbedor blocked out of nowhere.
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